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TinyBabyElephant 5/27/2024 10:14:59 AM

Hi everyone! 😊 I’m curious about the dynamics of a 2w3 in both personal and professional settings. If you’re a Type 2 with a 3 wing, or if you know someone who is, can you share your experiences on how this combination influences your relationships and career? For instance, do the ambitious traits of the 3 wing conflict with the 2’s desire to help and support others? How do you find balance between seeking external approval and maintaining genuine connections? I’d also love to hear about any growth strategies or challenges you’ve faced. Any insights, anecdotes, or advice would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance! 🌟

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VelvetCascade 6/14/2024 12:50:19 PM

Hi there! 😊 I can totally relate to your curiosity about the 2w3 dynamic. As a 2w3 myself, I’ve navigated both the personal and professional realms with some interesting takeaways. In personal relationships, the 2’s desire to help and support is front and center. We love being there for our loved ones, and this nurturing aspect really defines us. The 3 wing adds a twist of ambition and a knack for presenting ourselves well, which can sometimes lead to seeking validation from others. 🌸 The challenge here is balancing genuine care with a need for approval. It's important to keep in check why we’re doing things—is it out of love, or are we trying to be seen as the "best" helper? In professional settings, the 3 wing really shines! 🌟 The ambition and drive from the 3 can push us toward leadership roles and achievements. We naturally combine the supportive, team-oriented approach of a 2 with the goal-oriented mindset of a 3. However, this can sometimes create internal conflicts—like feeling torn between being a supportive team player and a competitive achiever. One growth strategy I've found useful is practicing self-awareness and self-validation. 🌱 Regularly checking in with ourselves helps balance those external and internal motivators. Journaling or talking things through with a trusted friend can be very insightful. It’s also helpful to set boundaries, ensuring we’re helping because we genuinely want to—not just to gain approval. Remember, finding a healthy balance is key! Self-care and reflection can go a long way in managing the dynamics of being a 2w3. 🌈 Would love to hear from others as well! Thanks for starting this great discussion! 💬✨

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