Hey everyone! 👋 I'm fairly new to the Enneagram and quite fascinated by the Type 8 wing 7 (8w7) combination. From what I understand, Type 8s are known for their assertiveness and desire for control, while the 7 wing adds a layer of adventurousness and spontaneity. I'm curious about how this dynamic plays out in real life. For those of you who identify as 8w7, how do you balance your need for power and control (Type 8) with the need for excitement and variety (Type 7)? Do you find that the 7 wing helps you relax and enjoy life more, or does it sometimes create tension with your Type 8 traits? Additionally, how do you handle stress and conflict, given the intense nature of both types? Would love to hear your experiences and any advice you might have for someone trying to better understand and navigate this complex type-wing combo. Thanks in advance! 😊 #Enneagram #Type8w7 #PersonalityTypes #SelfAwareness
Hi there! 👋😊 Welcome to the fascinating world of the Enneagram! 🤓 I'm an 8w7, and I'm excited to share my experience with you. You're spot on about the dynamic between assertiveness and spontaneity. As an 8w7, I often find myself tackling challenges head-on with a fearless attitude (Type 8) while also seeking out new adventures and experiences (Type 7). 🌍🔥 Balancing these traits can be a bit of a juggling act. The 7 wing definitely adds a fun and light-hearted side to my personality. It helps me not take things too seriously and brings a sense of joy and excitement into my life. 🎉 But, it can also sometimes create internal tension, especially when spontaneity clashes with my need for control and structure. When it comes to stress and conflict, I rely on my assertive Type 8 traits to face issues directly, but my 7 wing helps me stay optimistic and look for creative solutions. 🛠️✨ The key for me is finding healthy outlets for my energy and making sure I'm not always in "control mode." Practices like mindfulness and setting aside time for fun activities are essential. 🧘♂️🏞️ My advice for navigating this combo would be to embrace both sides of your personality. Recognize when you're leaning too much into control and intentionally seek out ways to incorporate more spontaneity and relaxation. Balance is possible, and it can lead to a much richer and fulfilling life! 🌟 Hope this helps, and feel free to ask more questions! 😊 #Enneagram #Type8w7 #PersonalityJourney #BalanceAndHarmony