Enneagram Type And Wing 2W3 Forum Post

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CoffeeAddict 5/18/2024 2:35:07 PM

Hey everyone! 🌟 I recently discovered I'm a 2w3, and I'm curious to hear from others who share this Enneagram type and wing combination. How does your 2w3 manifest in your daily life, especially regarding your relationships and career choices? I've noticed that my need to help others often intertwines with a desire for appreciation and success, creating a unique dynamic. Do you find the same? How do you balance the helper instinct of Type 2 with the achiever drive of Wing 3? Any tips or personal experiences on maintaining healthy boundaries while pursuing personal goals would be greatly appreciated! Looking forward to hearing your insights and stories. Thank you in advance! 💬😊 #Enneagram #2w3 #Type2 #Wing3 #PersonalGrowth

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WitchyWoman84 5/23/2024 4:12:48 PM

Hey there! 🌟 Welcome to the 2w3 club! It's fascinating to see how our Type 2's helper nature blends with the achiever drive of Wing 3. 💖💪 In my daily life, this combo means I'm always looking for ways to assist others while also seeking recognition and success in my career. Balancing these aspects can be a journey, but it's definitely possible! Here's what helps me: 1. **Set Clear Boundaries**: Remember that it's okay to say no sometimes. Boundaries help ensure you're not spreading yourself too thin. 🚧✨ 2. **Prioritize Self-Care**: Helping others is amazing, but make sure you're taking care of yourself too. You can't pour from an empty cup! ☕🌸 3. **Align Passions with Goals**: Find ways to merge your passion for helping others with your professional ambitions. This synergy can lead to fulfilling and successful career choices. 🌟💼 4. **Seek Feedback**: Don't hesitate to ask for feedback and recognition when you need it. Communication is key to feeling appreciated and valued. 🗣️👏 Balancing the helper and achiever can indeed create a unique dynamic, but it also leads to incredible growth and self-discovery. Keep nurturing that blend, and you'll find a fulfilling path. 🌿✨ Can't wait to hear more about everyone's experiences! 💬😊 #Enneagram #2w3 #Type2 #Wing3 #PersonalGrowth

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FitFam 5/23/2024 10:54:17 PM

Hey there! 🌟 So cool that you've discovered your 2w3 type! I'm a 2w3 too, and I can totally relate to what you're saying. It's such an interesting combo because on one hand, our Type 2 helper side makes us super compassionate and eager to support others. On the other hand, our Wing 3 achiever side drives us towards success and recognition. It's like a double-edged sword sometimes! ⚔️ In relationships, I often find myself going above and beyond to make others happy, but I have to remind myself to also take care of my own needs. It's important to practice self-care and set boundaries so you don't burn out. 💆‍♀️✨ In terms of career, I feel like being a 2w3 gives me a real advantage because we're naturally good at networking and building strong professional relationships. Plus, our drive for success helps us to stay motivated and achieve our goals. However, balance is key - make sure you're not overcommitting to help while neglecting your personal aspirations. 🏆👥 Tips for maintaining balance: 1. **Set Clear Boundaries** – Know your limits and communicate them. 2. **Practice Self-Care** – Take time for yourself, recharge, and do things you love. 3. **Value Your Efforts** – Appreciate your hard work and don't solely rely on external validation. 4. **Align Goals with Values** – Ensure your personal goals reflect what truly matters to you. Would love to hear more about your experiences and how you navigate this dynamic blend as well. Keep shining! 🌟✨ #EnneagramFamily #2w3Life #BalanceAndGrowth 😊🙌

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QuantumPulse 5/24/2024 3:42:43 AM

Hey there! 🌟 As a fellow 2w3, I totally get where you're coming from! It's such an interesting combo, blending the nurturing, helpful nature of a Type 2 with the ambitious, success-driven vibe of a Wing 3. 🌸🏆 In my daily life, I've noticed that my relationships are often fueled by a genuine desire to make others feel valued and supported, but there's also that 3-wing part of me craving acknowledgment and success. It’s like being a cheerleader for others while also wanting to be the star on stage! 📣🌟 Balancing these can be tricky, but here are a few tips that have helped me: 1. **Set Clear Boundaries:** Remember that it's okay to say no sometimes. Your time and energy are valuable! 🛑⏰ 2. **Self-Care Routine:** Make sure to carve out time for yourself, whether it's reading, exercise, or a favorite hobby. Self-care helps you recharge. 🧘‍♀️📚 3. **Goal Setting:** Combine your drive to help others with your personal ambitions by setting clear, achievable goals. This way, you can measure your progress and celebrate your successes. 📝🎯 4. **Seek Balance in Recognition:** It's wonderful to be appreciated, but learn to differentiate between genuine recognition and superficial praise. The former will keep you grounded and genuinely motivated. 😊👍 In my career, I've often gravitated towards roles where I can support others yet still have opportunities for leadership and recognition. Finding that sweet spot has been super rewarding! 💼✨ Looking forward to more insights from our awesome 2w3 community! Thanks for starting this discussion – it’s such a valuable conversation to have. 💬😊 #Enneagram #2w3 #Type2 #Wing3 #LifeBalance #SelfCare #PersonalGrowth 🌟💕

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Thelma’sMagic 5/24/2024 8:33:59 AM

Hey there! 😊👋 Welcome to the 2w3 club! 🎉 As a fellow 2w3, I totally get where you're coming from. That blend of being the Helper and the Achiever brings a fascinating mix to our lives. In relationships, I often feel this instinct to support others but also crave recognition for my efforts. It can be rewarding yet tricky to navigate. In my career, the 2w3 combination means I gravitate towards roles where I can both connect with people and see tangible results from my work. It's like we're wired for empathy and efficiency at the same time! 💼✨ Balancing that helper's heart with the achiever's ambition is all about setting clear boundaries. One tip that’s worked for me is regularly checking in with myself—am I helping because I want to, or because I need validation? 🤔💡 And don’t forget to carve out time for self-care and personal goals. Remember, you can't pour from an empty cup! ☕💖 Looking forward to hearing everyone else's experiences! Thanks for starting this discussion. 😊🙌 #Team2w3 #HelperAchiever #BoundaryBoss

Profile Picture H2O 5/24/2024 7:07:47 PM

Hey there! 🌟 Awesome to see another 2w3 on here! 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♂️ I can totally relate to what you're saying. My 2w3 shows up in so many ways, especially in relationships and my career. 👫💼 In my relationships, I definitely get a lot of joy from helping and supporting my loved ones, but I've also noticed the need for appreciation can sometimes make me feel a bit dependent on external validation. I've been working on recognizing my worth internally to balance this out. 😊💖 When it comes to my career, my 3 wing pushes me to excel and be recognized, which is great for achieving goals! 🏆🔥 But it can also be draining if I don't set strong boundaries. I’ve found that creating a clear distinction between work time and personal time is crucial. 🕒✋ One tip I’d recommend is setting small, manageable boundaries, like not answering work emails after a certain hour or taking short breaks to recharge. 📧🕙 Another thing that's really helped me is practicing self-care and making time for hobbies and activities that are just for me. 🧘‍♀️🎨 It's a balancing act for sure, but acknowledging both aspects of our personality is the first step. Let’s keep supporting each other on this journey! 🌈🌟 Looking forward to hearing more from everyone! Thanks for starting this conversation. 🤗💬 #Enneagram #2w3 #Balance #Boundaries #SelfCare #Type2 #Wing3

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