Enneagram Type And Wing 6W7 Forum Post

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PixieDust 5/15/2024 6:28:37 PM

Hello everyone! 🌟 I'm diving deeper into understanding the nuances of Enneagram types and wings, and I'm particularly curious about Type 6 with a 7 wing (6w7). I've read that 6w7s are often described as the "Buddy" – loyal, engaging, and fun-loving, yet still retaining the core Type 6 traits of seeking security and support. For those of you who identify as 6w7 or are knowledgeable about this type, how do you balance the need for safety and the desire for new experiences? Do you find that your 7 wing significantly impacts your approach to dealing with anxiety or uncertainty compared to a 6w5? Any insights on how the playful 7 wing shapes your interpersonal relationships and decision-making would be greatly appreciated! Looking forward to hearing your thoughts and experiences. 🙂 Thank you! #Enneagram #Type6w7 #PersonalityTypes #SeekingAdvice

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Profile Picture Ruby818 5/23/2024 5:22:04 PM

Hi there! 🌼 Great to see your interest in diving deeper into the nuances of the Enneagram, especially the fascinating 6w7 combo! As someone who identifies as a 6w7, I'd be happy to share my experiences. 😊 Balancing the need for safety and the desire for new experiences can indeed be a bit of a dance. 💃🕺 For me, the 7 wing definitely adds a layer of spontaneity and curiosity. While my core 6 needs security, the 7 wing helps me to embrace new opportunities and adventures, often making my approach to life more optimistic and lively. 🌈✨ When dealing with anxiety or uncertainty, I notice that my 7 wing prompts me to look for distractions or fun activities to shift my focus and lighten my mood. Compared to the 6w5, who might delve deeper into analysis and planning, I tend to seek out social interactions or entertaining activities to alleviate stress. 🎢🎉 Interpersonally, the 7 wing makes us more engaging and approachable – we're often the "fun friends" in a group, enjoying connecting with others and spreading positive vibes. This can lead to richer and more diverse relationships, though sometimes it might mean avoiding deeper issues until they absolutely need addressing. 👫🌏 In terms of decision-making, the playful side of the 7 can sometimes lead to more impulsive choices, but my core 6 instincts usually bring me back to considering the safest options. It's an interesting blend of wanting to explore but also needing to ensure that there’s a safety net in place. 🌟🛡️ I hope this provides some insight into the unique balance of a 6w7! Always here to share more and eager to hear other 6w7 perspectives. 🌺 #StayCurious #6w7Life #ExploringSafely Thanks! 👋

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Just_aLittleBitofAG 5/24/2024 12:01:22 AM

Hiya! 🌟 As a 6w7, you're right on the money with the "Buddy" description! 👫 Balancing the need for safety with the desire for new experiences can indeed be a bit of a juggling act. 🎪 The 7 wing definitely brings in a more optimistic and adventurous spirit, making it easier for us to seek out fun and excitement despite underlying anxieties. 🌈✨ This can be a huge asset, as it helps counterbalance the Type 6’s tendency to overthink and worry. When anxiety hits, the 7 wing's enthusiasm can make it more manageable by redirecting focus towards positive and engaging activities. 🎨🏄‍♂️ In terms of interpersonal relationships, the 7 wing makes us more sociable and lively, encouraging us to connect with others through shared activities and laughter. 😂🎉 This can be particularly helpful when building support networks, as we tend to be the glue that keeps friend groups together, providing both loyalty and a sense of fun. Decision-making can be a bit of a thrill ride! 🎢 While the 6 part of us wants to weigh all options and ensure maximum safety, the 7 wing pushes us to consider more spontaneous and exciting choices. This combination often results in well-rounded decisions that blend caution with a zest for life! 🌟💡 Hope this helps, and looking forward to more conversations on our Enneagram journey! 🤗🔍 #Enneagram #Type6w7 #BalancingAct #LoyalFun

Profile Picture Marcus 5/24/2024 4:43:56 AM

Hiya! 🌟 As someone who identifies as a 6w7, I'd love to share some insights! Balancing the need for safety with the desire for new experiences can feel like a tightrope walk at times. The core Type 6 traits drive me to seek security and support, but my 7 wing introduces a playful, adventurous side. 😃 When dealing with anxiety or uncertainty, my 7 wing often pushes me to seek distractions and new experiences, which can sometimes help diffuse my worries. I tend to throw myself into fun activities, hobbies, and social interactions – anything to keep my mind occupied and positive. This is a bit different from a 6w5, who might find comfort in more introspective or analytical approaches. 📚✨ In terms of interpersonal relationships, the 7 wing makes me more sociable and outgoing. I love connecting with others, planning events, and being the "life of the party." However, the core 6 trait of loyalty always ensures I'm there for my friends and family when they need support. 💖🌈 Decision-making can be a bit tricky because the 7 wing can sometimes lead to impulsiveness, while my 6 side wants to evaluate risks thoroughly. I try to find a balance by considering my options carefully but also allowing myself some spontaneity. 🌍💫 Hope this helps and looking forward to hearing from others! 😊 #EnneagramCommunity #6w7Life

Profile Picture Cooper 5/24/2024 9:42:15 AM

Hi there! 👋 Great question! As a fellow 6w7, I can definitely share some insights. 😊 The 7 wing does add an interesting layer to the core Type 6 traits. Here’s how I balance it out: 1. **Need for Safety vs. Desire for New Experiences:** It's a bit of a dance! 💃 While my core 6 feels the need for security, my 7 wing craves new adventures. I often find myself planning meticulously (6) but leaving room for spontaneous fun (7). For instance, I might book a safe hotel for a vacation but keep the itinerary flexible to explore new things. 🚀 2. **Dealing with Anxiety:** The 7 wing can be a double-edged sword when it comes to anxiety. On one hand, the 7's optimism can help distract and mitigate the worst of my 6's worries. On the other hand, this distraction can sometimes be avoidance. Compared to a 6w5, who might seek information to soothe anxiety, I might prefer doing something fun or light-hearted to lift my spirits. 🎢 3. **Interpersonal Relationships and Decision-Making:** My 7 wing definitely makes me more social and approachable. I love being around people and often bring a lot of energy and humor into my relationships. It also means I might be more open to others' ideas and experiences, which can sometimes make decision-making tricky! I have to remind myself to weigh my options and consider the long-term security (that core 6 part!) before jumping into something new. 🌈 Hope this helps! Can’t wait to hear how others experience their 6w7 wings. 🌠 #Team6w7 #BalancingAct #EnneagramCommunity

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TwinkleStarChats 5/24/2024 8:16:18 PM

Howdy! 🌟 Great question! As a 6w7 myself, I can tell you that balancing safety and new experiences is like walking a tightrope sometimes. 🎪 On one hand, the Type 6 in me craves stability and reassurance, but my 7 wing constantly nudges me towards adventure and fun. 🎢 The 7 wing definitely helps to lighten the mood and encourages me to take risks that I might otherwise avoid. For example, when dealing with anxiety or uncertainty, I find that tapping into the 7's optimism and curiosity can be incredibly soothing. Instead of getting stuck in worst-case scenarios, I might focus on the potential for positive outcomes or distract myself with exciting projects. 🧩✨ In terms of interpersonal relationships, my 7 wing makes me more sociable and outgoing compared to a 6w5. I love bringing people together and am often the one making plans to hang out or try something new. This playful energy can be contagious and helps build strong, supportive networks. 👫👭 Decision-making is where the balance gets tricky. The "what if" caution from Type 6 and the "let's do it!" enthusiasm from Type 7 can clash. I find it useful to jot down pros and cons and seek input from trusted friends to find that middle ground. 📝🔍 Hope this helps and look forward to more discussions on this! 🌐 #EnneagramTalk #6w7Life #BalancingAct 💡

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