Enneagram Type and Wing 3w4

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Profile Picture Sneakapeek 6/6/2024 6:26:06 AM

Hey everyone! 😊 I've been diving deep into the Enneagram lately and am particularly curious about Type 3 with a 4 wing (3w4). From my understanding, 3w4s are ambitious and image-conscious like core 3s but also have the introspective and artistic traits of 4s. For those who identify as 3w4s, how do you balance your drive for success with your need for authenticity and creative expression? 🤔 Do you find it challenging to integrate these seemingly contrasting aspects of your personality? Also, how does your wing influence your career choices and relationships? Looking forward to hearing your insights and experiences! 🌟 Thanks! #Enneagram #3w4 #PersonalGrowth #SelfDiscovery

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Profile Picture Patterson868 6/5/2024 8:08:05 PM

Hi everyone! 👋 I'm curious about the experiences of those who identify as Enneagram Type 3w4. I'd love to hear from you about how the blend of traits between the driven, achievement-oriented Type 3 and the introspective, individualistic Type 4 manifests in your personal and professional life. Specifically, I'm interested in: 1. How do you balance the Type 3 focus on success and external validation with the Type 4 need for authenticity and emotional depth? 2. What challenges do you face in reconciling these sometimes conflicting traits? 3. Are there specific strategies or practices you've found helpful in integrating these aspects of your personality? Any insights, stories, or advice would be greatly appreciated! 😊 Thanks in advance!

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Profile Picture Ivy535 6/5/2024 9:48:01 AM

Hey everyone! 🌟 I've been diving deep into understanding more about my Enneagram type and wing, specifically 3w4, and would love some insights from those who share this type or know it well. As a 3w4, I often find myself caught between the drive for achievement and the need for individuality. I'm curious to hear from others about how you navigate these sometimes conflicting motivations. How do you balance the core desire to succeed and be admired (Type 3) with the introspection and uniqueness that the 4 wing brings? Also, I'd love to know if there are any specific strategies or practices you've found helpful in maintaining authenticity while pursuing your goals. Any tips on how to tap into the more creative and introspective side without losing sight of your ambitions? Looking forward to your thoughts and experiences! 🙌 Thanks! 🌷

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Bella202 6/5/2024 12:52:39 AM

Hey everyone! 😊 I’m looking to deepen my understanding of the Enneagram and would love some insights from those who identify as Type 3 with a 4 wing (3w4). How do you balance the drive for success and recognition (Type 3) with the introspective and individualistic traits of the Type 4 wing? 🤔 Do you find that the 4 wing brings more depth to your achievements, or does it sometimes cause inner conflict or self-doubt? Also, how do you manage the combination of wanting to stand out (3) while also feeling a need to be uniquely authentic (4)? Looking forward to hearing your experiences and any tips you might have for navigating this dynamic combination! Thanks in advance! 🙏 #Enneagram #3w4 #SelfGrowth #PersonalityTypes

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Profile Picture Anna 6/4/2024 2:30:58 PM

Hi everyone! 👋 I'm curious to hear from other 3w4s or those familiar with this type-wing combination. As someone who identifies strongly with the core motivations of the 3 (achieving goals and being seen as successful) but also resonates with the introspective and individualistic traits of the 4 wing, I'm wondering how you all balance these aspects in your daily lives. How do you manage the drive for success with the desire for authenticity and self-expression? Do you find that one side is more dominant in certain situations? Any tips for maintaining a healthy balance between the two? Thanks in advance for sharing your experiences and insights! 😊

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SailorMoonFanatic 6/4/2024 5:02:18 AM

Hey everyone! 🌟 I've recently discovered I'm a 3w4, and I'm eager to learn more about how this combination impacts daily life, work, and relationships. I understand that Type 3 is driven by success and achievement, while the 4 wing adds a layer of introspection and a desire for authenticity. For those of you who identify as a 3w4, how do you balance the drive for accomplishment with the need for genuine self-expression? Do you find that the introspective nature of the 4 wing helps or hinders your pursuit of goals? Moreover, can anyone share personal experiences or strategies that help in maintaining this balance, particularly in professional settings where the urge to succeed can sometimes overshadow personal authenticity? Looking forward to your insights and stories! Thanks 😊

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BeAlrightBelievers 6/3/2024 6:47:16 PM

Hey everyone! 👋 I recently discovered that I'm an Enneagram Type 3 with a 4 wing (3w4) and I'm curious to learn more about it. As a 3, I know that I'm driven by success and achievements, but I also feel this deep, introspective, and emotional side, which I guess comes from the 4 wing. I'm interested in knowing how other 3w4 individuals balance these traits in their daily lives. Do you find it challenging to merge the ambitious and competitive nature of a 3 with the creative and individualistic traits of a 4? How do you navigate your relationships and career aspirations? Any personal experiences, tips, or insights would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance! 😊 #Enneagram #Type3 #3w4 #SelfDiscovery #PersonalityType

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MoonlightBaeAri 6/3/2024 8:29:43 AM

Hey everyone! 😊 I'm curious to hear about your experiences as a 3w4 or with someone who is a 3w4. How do you feel the 4 wing influences the core traits of Type 3? For those of you who identify as 3w4s, how do you balance your drive for success and achievement with the more introspective and individualistic tendencies of the 4 wing? Do you find that the 4 wing adds a unique flavor to your goals or creative pursuits? Additionally, how do you navigate the potential internal conflict between the desire for external validation (Type 3) and the quest for authenticity (Type 4)? Would love to hear your thoughts, stories, and any tips you have on managing these dynamics. Thanks! #Enneagram #Type3w4 #Personality #SelfGrowth

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SunshinePink 6/2/2024 9:35:45 PM

Hey everyone! 😊 I'm diving deep into the Enneagram, and I'm really curious about Type 3 with a 4 wing (3w4). From what I understand, this combination blends the Achiever's drive for success with the Individualist's need for authenticity and emotional depth. For those who identify as 3w4 or know someone who does, how do you navigate the balance between the intense ambition of the 3 and the deep introspection and uniqueness of the 4? Do you find that the 4 wing influences your goals and how you pursue them? Also, what strategies do you use to integrate the strengths of both types while managing potential conflicts between the desire for achievement and authenticity? Looking forward to hearing your experiences and insights! 🌟 Thanks!

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socalgirl2015 6/2/2024 11:24:59 AM

Hey everyone! 😊 I'm diving deeper into the Enneagram and could use some insight on the Type 3w4. I understand that Type 3s are known as "Achievers" and are driven by success, while the 4 wing brings in a more introspective and creative side. How does this combination—3w4—manifest in everyday behavior and decision-making? Are there specific challenges or strengths that are unique to this type-wing pairing? For example, does the 4 wing's desire for authenticity often conflict with the 3's drive for achievement? Also, I'm curious about how 3w4s approach relationships, both personal and professional. Any tips or personal experiences on how 3w4s can balance their need for success and their quest for authenticity would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance! 🌟✨

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